Ellen has suffered the unexpected loss of her baby. She has experienced enormous pain that has shaken her to the core. Her soul has been ripped open. While she can’t do anything about was has already happened, there are some concepts that she needs to understand which are important to in the recovery and restoration process.
The most important learning, is that you have a new perspective on everything. You have lost something that is invaluable and not replaceable. This enables you to understand what is truly important on The Road. What things warrant your attention, your affection, concern, interest, focus and treasure. This is an incredibly valuable trait to attain.
You will now view everything in life through the lens this event. It becomes natural, you won’t even realize you are doing it. It impacts how you view life and therefore how you live life. You will be able to keep calm when others panic because you know what a “life and death” situation is and what it is not, because you have literally experienced it.
Jesus said “Blessed are those who mourn because shall be comforted”. We tend to think comfort is something that happens for a limited time, in the short term. But maybe this new perspective on life means the mourner is comforted the rest of his life. Could the pain be temporary and the comfort long-lasting?
If you keeping looking back on the event, you grow bitter. Your pain is extended and your strength is sapped. If you are able focus on moving forward and use whatever beneficial things you are able to extract from your tragedy, The Road becomes smooths out over time.
Fortunately, I can tell that Ellen does indeed have this new perspective and she has acquired it much sooner than most. She is back on The Road and that is a great thing.